Are you
feeling like you need to make a change
but fear what might happen if you
actually go through with it?
Feeling
called to take a "leap" even if it
doesn't make sense to those around you?
I have been
there a few times and have learned some
important things that have changed the
way I view these changes and I’d love to
share them with you. If you find
yourself at a crossroads, afraid of
doing what you know in your heart you
are meant to do, I hope this opens your
eyes and heart to a more supportive way.
I am finding
myself at yet another "cliff" in my
life. And as I make my way to take my
leap I am realizing a lot about the
logic I operate by without even thinking
about it, which is very different than
the normal logic we are shown in our
society. I want to share with you about
what I am calling the “new logic”, what
I have found is much more realistic than
the normal left-brained logic our
society has conditioned us to use.
Let me share
with you a story from my own life to
show an example of how the “new logic”
can work.
A few years
ago I was trying so hard to build my
business, yet couldn’t seem to bring it
to the point where it could fully
support me. I was doing this work I
loved full time but was primarily
financially supported by my partner at
the time. After working on and sharing
a new process on overcoming fear with my
clients, I suddenly found myself
realizing that the relationship I was in
was no longer right for me.
Now the old
logic kicks in to say “you can’t live on
what you make, you’ll have to go back to
your Engineering job”, but there was
something deeper telling me otherwise.
I was not willing to go back to my old
career and I truly did believe that the
Universe didn’t want me to either.
So I did
something that seemed “logical” to me,
but to others around me may have seemed
crazy.
I made a
choice.
I left a
situation that was no longer right for
me.
I chose to
believe in myself, I chose to believe,
100% that I could support myself, to
believe, in spite of all evidence to the
contrary, that I could really do it.
I chose to
believe in myself and did whatever it
took to back up that intention with
serious action and support.
And the brief
summary of what happened after that… A
business program came along that I felt
so connected to and although I was
scared and it was a significant
investment, it felt right so I signed
up. I ended up staying with family for
5 months and in that time, brought my
business to a whole new level.
Within 5
months I was able to support myself and
move out.
And the
amazing result that could not have been
predicted by regular logic? That year
my sales increased by 322% over the
previous year before I had made this
change. I was able to support myself.
Unbelievable. Now I’ll be honest to say
that this leap of faith experience was
certainly not the easiest time of my
life, in fact it was quite challenging
on all levels, was uncomfortable at
times and stretched me beyond what I
could have imagined. But I wouldn’t
have traded it for anything else. This
experience helped me grow into who I
needed to be.
So what can
you learn from this experience?
#1 The
logic of the Universe is not the same as
the normal logic in our society
It is not
logical in our society to have a 322%
increase in sales. I heard in a
business training course once that it is
normal to have a fifteen percent
increase in sales. I’ve had that
“normal” increase in sales in the middle
of a recession, now is that logical?
Not to the rest of the world but to me
it is absolutely my truth, my reality.
You want to
start small to become in tune with the
logic of the Universe. You do
this when you check within for your
answers and take action on it, rather
than just going by the normal logic.
Listen
within. This skill and your confidence
in using it will develop over time ONLY
when you use it! Faith is like a muscle
that grows only when you use it. Start
small to begin building this muscle for
yourself.
#2
Sometimes your circumstances can’t
change until you step up
Sometimes
what is happening in your life that
needs a change is impacting your energy
so much that you literally must make
that change BEFORE what you want to
happen can possibly happen.
There are some lessons that simply can’t
be learned until you put yourself in
that uncomfortable place of the new and
unknown.
I have come
to see that the Universe steps up when
you do. And even more than that, the
Universe WON’T step up UNTIL you do.
The very things you want to change or
are wishing were better might not change
until you step up in a new way that you
are being guided to and may have been
avoiding because it scares you.
EVERY time I
am brought to the edge of a cliff in my
life I know it is with great purpose.
And I realize that it is likely
something I must do to become who I do
not yet know I can be.
Your new
reality requires a new, evolved you to
live it.
Who might you
become if you make your leap of true
faith guided by your deeper self instead
of stopping yourself by the tired old
logic that keeps you small? Start now
with a small leap of faith backed by
guided action and belief in yourself.